Establishing the Connection

Previously I have introduced some posts about the connection between mind, body and soul. In this post I would like to further this knowledge.

For years the dialogue about the connection between gut and mind has been established. Not only through medicine (Ayuverdic, and Chinese medicine for example) but also through our own knowledge. We constantly see this connection very clearly, whenever we get “butterflies” in our stomach or we are anxious, or we make a certain decision because in our gut it feels right. And we even see the physical repercussions of stress: hair loss, acne, insomnia and so on.

The “small” symptoms our body shows when we are feeling a certain way is certainly palpable. But, what happens when we put our spirits aside as well? I could be very dramatic and mention cancer, but really that is just another symptom. The root of our health problems are often (just to not say always) based on our unbalanced selves. Not just because we don’t eat right, sleep right, or take time to relax. But also because we don’t think right nor do we pay attention to ourselves correctly.

Based on my previous posts, by now you should understand that we are 100%, not only what we eat, but what we think. And our spirits play a huge role in what we think, hence what we are.

It has been said a numerous amount of times. One percent of us belongs to the physical realm and ninety nine percent of us to the spiritual realm. We are 1% PHYSICAL, and 99% SPIRITUAL. Yes, it’s true. As “Deepak Chopra” as it sounds, we are spiritual beings in an earthly plane.

As we continue through life ignoring what our spirit needs of us we make our mind and health problems a lot more intricate. Why? Because we are not in tune with ourselves. Therefore we know not what we want, we just go by automatically making rash decisions.

If we can grasp the notion that our minds and bodies are connected, then understanding that our spirit plays a role in this shouldn’t be so difficult.

Have you ever ignored something you really wanted to do? And this something surpassed your gut and mind feeling? There was something bigger inside of you screaming that you needed to do that.

Did you?

If you did, you understand that something inside of you was your spirit saying “GO GO GO, YES THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE HERE FOR GO AHEAD!”.

If you didn’t do it, your probably looking back at that moment and feeling regretful. But, let’s reflect a bit on why you didn’t do it. Surely, you found a thousand reasons not to and they seemed right at the moment. But, did any of these reasons affect you? Or did you just find more excuses than reasons.

Allow yourself to go into a little moment with you:

Close your eyes (or don’t however you feel)

Take a deep breath, inhale and exhale.

Put your hands gently on your stomach, and ask “how am I feeling right now?” Then ask yourself, “how do I want to feel?”… hear intently.

Take another deep, deep breath.

Now, put your hands on your chest or heart. Ask, “what would make me feel how I want to feel?” “What can I do to feel satisfied with myself?” Hear intently and with curiosity. Pay attention to the answer.

Another deep, deep, deep breath.

Place your hands gently on your head. Ask, “how will I achieve this?” “What is my next move?” Visualize your plan.

You might be asking yourself what is the point of all of this. Well, you have just established a very important connection. A connection with you. Taking in consideration your mind, body and soul. Remember your soul is where your core self lies. It is where the real answers are. Our mind simply tells us how to construct the plan our being wants to execute and our body simply expresses how we are really feeling.

I encourage you to try this simple exercise more often and see where it takes you. Hear yourself more closely, be more curios about what you really want. Is what you want what others want for you? Or what your spirit (you) is longing for?

Welcome Yourself

Why is it we feel the need to fill up silence?

I have mentioned the importance of silence before, but in this post I would like to explore it with you.

Whenever we are at home, in the car, at the beach, or even with friends, at some point there comes a moment of silence. We sometimes call it “awkward silence”, but why is it awkward?

We automatically start blabbing about non-important topics, maybe about the latest Kardashian scandal, but on the inside we truly don’t want to talk about that. We just can’t stand the silence so we fill it up with the first thing that occurs to us.

Have you ever thought this could be our own fear of being real? Fear of, for a moment, hearing our actual thoughts and sharing them? What is wrong with talking about what you really feel? Why do we feel ashamed of expressing our emotions and thoughts?

We are not confident with silence maybe because we aren’t confident with our thoughts, with ourselves. Because we have put them aside for so long and acquired everyone else’s ideals as “normal” and “correct” ones.

How do we become comfortable with our thoughts and emotions? The key is silence…. SURPRISE! Conscious breathing and keeping calm helps us analize our thoughts better, make better desicions. Becoming one with the world around you as opposed to just going by it is another way to get in tune with you.

In order to concentrate, to finish an essay, to work faster, to write a book, to have a serious conversation etc… we ask for silence. Then, why not give into it all the time? Why not be focused throughout our day? Why wait until an “important” moment presents itself to ask for silence? Our whole lives, actions, reactions and desicions are important all the time.

What are you waiting for? The inner you is waiting anxiously to be heard! You have so many desires, ideas, and aspirations inside of you just itching to come about! Welcome them! WELCOME YOURSELF!

Positive Loopholes

Have you noticed all the patterns in your life?

Have you ever wondered why you constantly notice what you lack and the lacking persists? We repeatedly express everything that is going wrong, that is missing in our lives and nothing changes. Why is that?

We have created an unhealthy loophole in which we are continously circling mentally. The result is the embodimient of what we are repeating in our minds and actions. The moment we restart that loophole and convert it into a positive one is the moment we change our mind-set.

If you continue to shed a light on all wrongs, they will keep appearing. But if we live in gratitude, conscious of all we do have we will keep receiving more of it.

Let’s think about all the times our mothers would say “Don’t come back too late something bad will happen.” Why would they acknowledge the bad while expecting the good to happen? Why do we? It’s like expecting to be healthier while eating junk food. It is the same with money, love, time and oppoetunities. If we keep on acknowledging we don’t “have” them we will continue lacking them

I have mentioned before the power our perspectives have but also it is important to mention that while we are greatful about everything even before it happens we are already acknowledging it happened. So, why woulnd’t it happen?

It is our job to restart and upgrade our toxic loops and patterns and create a more conscious, postive loop. The moment we change our perspectives to positive ones our life and everything in it will evolve for the better. The possibilities will be as they are, limitless.